The Harmonious Family

 Tips and Strategies to Build the Harmonious Family

INSTITUTIONAL family makes human life was always congregational. Chairman of the family not only lead the family expert, but also the practice of shura element in all cases involve a family expert.In congregational life, husbands, wives and children will be praying together, eating, buy-sides, and do pray activity family without an expert to put away another family. The house is like heaven that enhance human life, everything in it, the occupants feel protected survived, let alone a family headed by a chairman responsible and full of affection. Households crippled cause leaders not submissive to expert-led, it will not achieve the objective of marriage and family as required where religion.

Islam prescribed any marriage cause fulfill human nature that should not be living alone. Require human attention, help, support and partner for teamed weaknesses and strengths that may lead to complete a life hereafter. The purpose of marriage is to achieve peace and happiness in life. God's Word is intended: "And among the signs of Allah that He made for you that spouse so that you get peace / happiness with him. God then created between you two mawaddah and mercy. "(Surah ar-Rum, verse 21)Through marriage people will live in mawaddah, deliberation and trustworthy. Paired normal love between each other kerana they complement each other, making precisely mawaddah berhemah fellow human beings and contrary to God ansur fellow beings. Mawaddah purpose is not only to satisfy the sexual desire, also needs the soul and conscience of man who was always accompanied by the pair want to teamed hard and happy. Mawaddah based on sheer self-aggrandizement would eliminate the mercy of the household life to allow the husband or wife to leave her partner cause others.
Deliberation is also started if the pair of mutual respect, understanding the needs and will of the individual, Cuba precisely fulfill without sacrificing one of them. But, be otherwise if the concept of shura congregation and no longer applied in the household. Amanah make the couple more fear of Allah cause he gave 'something' to the husband and wife are responsible for giving the order. Gus he once made them the mandate and the mandate to make them cautious. However, the marriage became life difficult for any couple who are not able to achieve the objective of marriage in Islam. Households that are not able to be enforced by mawaddah, deliberation and mandate will be easy ranap and collapsed. It is true that divorce is most hated by Allah, but not significantly spouses must continue to allow themselves to be under the debris tenat household.
If marriage be the cause of the increasingly fierce man doing immoral and deny the commandments of God, of course, that marriage should be shunned. Because that's the origin of marriage was legal although kerana circumcision practiced by the Prophet Muhammad, established the law of marriage scholars differed follow individual situation. In fact, marriage is not allowed if the husband is not able to promote mawaddah, deliberation and trust, as well as oppressing not feed their wives and inner zahir.Precisely, there is no rationale to continue a marriage if it makes people more distant than the love of God. No husband or wife mawaddah, deliberation and trustful partner did not make obedient, faithful, once gus pervert household fostered. In fact, he likely result in enactment of other acts who made them increasingly breach against God's rule. Divorce is not false, he not also determine a new life that will be developed will be better than ever, but he is way out of trouble.